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She woke up drunk in guy-pal's bed

I recently went out to a bar and drank way too much. My girlfriends did not want to babysit me, so they called one of my good guy-friends to come get me. I have known him for years and trusted him completely. I woke up naked in his bed the following day.

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Sexcetera: Whose private part was in that photo?

Q: I was going through a friend's cell phone when I came across a photo of a penis. I wasn't sure if it was his or someone else's. I was so surprised. What's the best way to handle a situation like this?

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abusive wife? don't take it anymore

Q: Is there such a thing as domestic abuse of a husband? Six times in the three years we've been married my wife has struck me. She has a terrible temper. She breaks dishes, throws them at me and hits me with her fists. I am bigger and stronger and able to fend her off. I have never hit her back. These rages are most often provoked by jealousy.

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should he kiss and tell, or just kiss?

Q: I'm a 39-year-old guy, happily divorced. This summer I reconnected with a very special woman whom I knew growing up. We are having a great time together. While I was divorced, I had an affair with this woman's friend (who does not live nearby). To be fair, I spoke with the woman with whom I had the affair about seeing her friend; she wanted the best for us and encouraged me to pursue her. Also, I had been hyperactively dating on match.com for quite some time...

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do guys tell other guys about affairs?

Q: A good buddy of mine from college came to visit with his wife and a mutual friend we've known for a few years. We had a good time together, but after they left my wife told me that she was certain that my buddy's wife was having an affair with our other friend. She listed several things that she noticed, but I hadn't. Now she thinks I should talk with my college buddy about it. I don't want to see the guy hurt. Any ideas?

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She has a connection with a distant cousin

Q: I have developed a strong emotional and intimate relationship with a very distant cousin (fifth cousin). No one within our immediate families is aware of this. I am very much in love with this man, who has swept me off my feet. I am afraid what my family will say and think of me. We both are way beyond our baby-making ages and are very much in love. We live in different states and are working out this long-distance thing. It's not illegal; I've checked. Is it morally OK? I would hate to have to give up this man who has been the only man in my life to love me for me and makes me melt every time I look at him.

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Does marriage equal prostitution?

Q: The high-priced call girl who brought down New York Gov. Eliot Spitzer recently said snobby women shouldn't be judgmental about her profession, since they trade sex for things like security, a wealthy lifestyle, a career boost, etc., all the time. Do you think she's right?

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He and The Relationship No Longer Work

Q: My guy got laid off his job in January. And ever since, he’s been sitting around the house in the same T-shirt and gym shorts. He’s getting fat. He has stopped shaving. When I come home from work, he’s sitting in front of the computer playing . . .

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Don't wait for that red flag to hit you in the face

Q: I am a 23-year-old male who has been dating a 20-year-old female. We just met in May. Now she is talking about marrying me and having kids. I love her, but I feel things are just moving way too fast. She is bisexual and it's not a problem. However, she wants to bring a lady in that I do not...

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Facebook Stirs a Passion, Jealousy

Q: I have been married for 14 years. My husband recently set up a Facebook account and has been communicating with his college girlfriend on it. She's very pretty. He told her he was happy to hear from her again. I can't stop thinking about it. Should I confront him?

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Alas, angry sex is all we have

Q: Sometimes, when my partner comes home angry, it turns me on. Is it wrong for me to deliberately make my partner even angrier? I get great sex afterward, but I'm afraid I may cause a heart attack. What should I do?

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He's Badly Stung By His First Breakup

Q: I am crushed. A woman I loved deeply has betrayed me. We were together eight months and talked about marriage. She told me last week that she was returning to her old boyfriend . . .

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woman is fed up with her hubby ignoring anniversaries

Q: My husband refuses to acknowledge our wedding anniversary! Money isn't an issue for us. Nor is time. Nor anything else. But each year, our big day comes and goes, and he just ignores it. No cards. No gifts. Sometimes we watch our wedding video. But we don't do much else. No fancy dinners out. More than anything, I'd love to do something special to commemorate the fact that...

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She Wants The Sex She Had 23 Years Ago

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Q: I've been married for 23 years, and everything was great until a year ago, when he started to change sexually. Foreplay things he used to do, he doesn't do anymore. We have three grown children, and we are going to be left alone as they make their lives. What can I do for him to make things like they were before?

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He's Not Up For Feeding Her Sex Drive

Q: I am an independent woman, 43, with two older children who do not live with me. I am dating a patient, loving, kind, smart and generous man of 59 who has never married, has no children and is also independent. We are engaged and very happy together most of the time. However, he is white, and my family has issues with his race. Also, he is...

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Your Hand, My Leg, No Deal

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Q: I’m a sales rep and have had a business relationship for several years with a man who represents one of my customers. . . .

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